By Jenna Smith
Communication is a main quality in a relationship. In order to allow feelings to grow between the two loves they both have to be willing to work together. Actor Henry Winkler once said, “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Without communication in a relationship one may begin to overanalyze or assume the worst. Is it because of your past? You have been lied and manipulated to too many times? Do not let your past control your future. Having the same mind thought of for a new relationship based off of current relationships is only setting the common grounds for disaster. There is a reason it did not work out, let it be. Start fresh and make a new adventure.
However, do not get caught up into thinking the next relationship that you experience will be perfect. Chances are they may not be. No one is perfect. No matter how hard someone may try we all fall down sometimes. Do not keep a guard up but don’t be blind towards the actions that your partner may show. Actions speak louder than words. Author Lisa Kleypas looks at a relationship in a unique way. “I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight,” she said. “But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings hinge together.”
It’s not all about perfection it’s about what brings the two of you together, a connection. When you find that connection don’t be afraid to speak openly and honest on whatever may be on your mind. By communicating it will avoid problems between relationships. We can’t
read each other’s mind. Speak freely and live fearlessly.